Jun-28-2010, 06:58 PM (UTC)
(This post was last modified: Jun-29-2010, 02:39 PM (UTC) by Syrocko.)
I'm afraid that I haven't had time to read everything written so far in this thread, but have managed a good deal of it. I really just wanted to voice my surprise that so many people seem to dislike the ending. Me, my girlfriend and my Mum have all finished the books, and all of us found the ending very satisfying.
Yes, Kettle did explain to Fitz that he loved the idea of him and Molly more than the reality, but he did not agree. I also find it perfectly plausible that old and wise as she was, she could not see all of Fitz and misjudged the relationship. I've always liked the character of Molly, and suspect that many people dislike her mostly because she was so often angry with Fitz in ways which we know he does not fully deserve. But I didn't find her unreasonable when considering the situation she found herself in, and respected her for not being a push-over despite her love for Fitz. Despite having good reasons, he did keep a lot of secrets from her, and messed her around in all sorts of ways. He could not properly explain to her how and why many of his seemingly unreasonable actions were taken out of fear for her life and his, and because of circumstances outside of his control. Molly just thought he must be messing her around because he did not love her enough, or else that he was too cowardly to stand up and fight for her. So they argued not because they were a bad match, but because the rotten circumstances between them never gave them a chance at a healthy relationship.
Yes, Molly was married to Burrich for 16 or so years, but only because she believed Fitz would never return to her. It is possible to love more than one person. It doesn't have to make sense intellectually, her love was so strong that time could not erase it.
As for whether Molly is TRULY the right person for Fitz, I say yes. Even as early on as AQ, Fitz tells us that all he really wanted for himself was to go home to Molly and live a simple life, but he is denied this. As the reader we may harbour a wish to see him publicly acknowledged as a hero, become the king, run away with the fool etc, but a simple life with Molly was what FITZ most desired, even if some of us may think he should wish for more. He still visits Buckkeep often, and continues to serve his Queen and prince so he has hardly retreated back to isolation. I dare say that we are meant to ponder about the love in Fitz' life Jinna refers to, and wonder whether it's Molly or the Fool. In the end, it could be either or both. Yes, the Fool loved Fitz for what he truly was, but I'd say that Molly also loved him warts and all, and him her. Molly was simply never given the chance to know all of Fitz throughout the books, and in the end when he promises her "no secrets between us" and we see that they go on to live happily together, I assume that she was finally allowed to truly know him, the way he could not allow her before, and loved him for it.
Yes, towards the end Fitz does show a a great deal of love and concern for the Fool. However, for Fitz' part this simply isn't romantic love. More to the point, the Fool admits he can never be content to be around Fitz without possessing the whole of his heart. Fitz is a person who's generally very closed and suspicious, but those who do find a way into his heart are loved all the more for it, to the point where Fitz would gladly sacrifice his life for them. The love he feels for Molly, Nighteyes and the Fool goes very deep with each of them. Fitz would have gladly married Molly, with Nighteyes as his bond partner and the Fool as his closest friend. Nighteyes would likely have accepted this, but both Molly and the Fool would have become jealous that there were others who held such a place in his heart. This is in fact part of the reason why the Fool leaves. Thus Fitz cannot have everything he's ever wanted all at the same time, but though he misses the other two special beings in his life, Molly is more than enough for him.
I found the fact that Fitz had been partially forged for years an excellent and plausible twist. He was not forged to the extent that Verity or Kebal Rawbred were. Just a handful of his memories were missing, but they happened to be some of the most significant ones! It is a literal metaphor for many of us do in real life. We may not actually surrender our memories to a dragon, but we may simply suppress some which are too painful and in the process lose an important part of who we are.
Yes, Kettle did explain to Fitz that he loved the idea of him and Molly more than the reality, but he did not agree. I also find it perfectly plausible that old and wise as she was, she could not see all of Fitz and misjudged the relationship. I've always liked the character of Molly, and suspect that many people dislike her mostly because she was so often angry with Fitz in ways which we know he does not fully deserve. But I didn't find her unreasonable when considering the situation she found herself in, and respected her for not being a push-over despite her love for Fitz. Despite having good reasons, he did keep a lot of secrets from her, and messed her around in all sorts of ways. He could not properly explain to her how and why many of his seemingly unreasonable actions were taken out of fear for her life and his, and because of circumstances outside of his control. Molly just thought he must be messing her around because he did not love her enough, or else that he was too cowardly to stand up and fight for her. So they argued not because they were a bad match, but because the rotten circumstances between them never gave them a chance at a healthy relationship.
Yes, Molly was married to Burrich for 16 or so years, but only because she believed Fitz would never return to her. It is possible to love more than one person. It doesn't have to make sense intellectually, her love was so strong that time could not erase it.
As for whether Molly is TRULY the right person for Fitz, I say yes. Even as early on as AQ, Fitz tells us that all he really wanted for himself was to go home to Molly and live a simple life, but he is denied this. As the reader we may harbour a wish to see him publicly acknowledged as a hero, become the king, run away with the fool etc, but a simple life with Molly was what FITZ most desired, even if some of us may think he should wish for more. He still visits Buckkeep often, and continues to serve his Queen and prince so he has hardly retreated back to isolation. I dare say that we are meant to ponder about the love in Fitz' life Jinna refers to, and wonder whether it's Molly or the Fool. In the end, it could be either or both. Yes, the Fool loved Fitz for what he truly was, but I'd say that Molly also loved him warts and all, and him her. Molly was simply never given the chance to know all of Fitz throughout the books, and in the end when he promises her "no secrets between us" and we see that they go on to live happily together, I assume that she was finally allowed to truly know him, the way he could not allow her before, and loved him for it.
Yes, towards the end Fitz does show a a great deal of love and concern for the Fool. However, for Fitz' part this simply isn't romantic love. More to the point, the Fool admits he can never be content to be around Fitz without possessing the whole of his heart. Fitz is a person who's generally very closed and suspicious, but those who do find a way into his heart are loved all the more for it, to the point where Fitz would gladly sacrifice his life for them. The love he feels for Molly, Nighteyes and the Fool goes very deep with each of them. Fitz would have gladly married Molly, with Nighteyes as his bond partner and the Fool as his closest friend. Nighteyes would likely have accepted this, but both Molly and the Fool would have become jealous that there were others who held such a place in his heart. This is in fact part of the reason why the Fool leaves. Thus Fitz cannot have everything he's ever wanted all at the same time, but though he misses the other two special beings in his life, Molly is more than enough for him.
I found the fact that Fitz had been partially forged for years an excellent and plausible twist. He was not forged to the extent that Verity or Kebal Rawbred were. Just a handful of his memories were missing, but they happened to be some of the most significant ones! It is a literal metaphor for many of us do in real life. We may not actually surrender our memories to a dragon, but we may simply suppress some which are too painful and in the process lose an important part of who we are.